First, I feel like I need to lay down some ground rules.
- The "Withouts" are not cumulative. Once that month is over I can have/do that thing again.
- Each Without must be something that is a challenge to give up.
- If I fail, and give in, my punishment is ___________ (???)
- I will update the blog at least once a month about my progress on that month's Without.
- TV - Its really nice to veg out in front of the TV after work and chores at home. But sometimes I do feel a little trapped by it. This seems hard...maybe February? Wait, I just googled it and Superbowl is in February. That won't work.
- Spending money on anything that is not fresh food. I was reading a blog for a bit by a woman who gave up buying anything she couldn't make herself. This included clothes, grocery items, crafts, holiday decorations and just about anything you can think of. It seemed like a great idea. I like it. I'd have a few exceptions to make life bearable (I'm not going to make dog food and bills don't count), but I think this would be a good way to be more aware of waste in my life and to save money.
- Alcohol - this is a lot like TV. On a Friday night, its really nice to have a glass of wine, or a beer with friends. I don't drink a lot but I think it would be a good plan to go without for awhile. I did give it up for a few months before the wedding to help get in shape, I could totally do it again.
- Sweets - I included this on the list because it is a really common challenge for most folks. I'm not sure how hard this would be for me. I don't really enjoy sweets, the only time I do is a few gummy candies with a glass of wine when I take a bath. Don't judge, its phenomenal.
- The snooze button - I used to be so good about jumping out of bed right after the alarm, now, not so much. Maybe a month of having to give it up would be a good thing and get me back in the habit of jumping out of bed.
- Store bought meals - make everything from scratch for one month. We eat a lot of store bought food, but if I didn't have a box of pasta-roni in my cupboard and a kielbasa in my freezer, I don't know what we'd have on a night when things got too busy to plan ahead.
- Meat - I love pork, chicken, turkey, bacon, beef...this would be a tough one. But I'd learn a bunch of new recipes
- Chips - this would be a different kind of sacrifice from store bought meals, I'm allowed to have kraft mac and cheese, but not wavy lays...hmmm...
- Popular Radio - aside from TV, I think radio is the one thing I use that causes me to waste the most time listening to things I don't care about, ads. If I gave up all radio except NPR, and the old time radio that Josh and I have recently gotten into, I wonder if I"d feel like I was missing anything. Music is allowed, radio is not.
- Driving a car - this seems like a really good thing to give up. But honestly, I don't know if I can. I have to drive to work or I'd have an hour plus long commute and I'd have to go way out of my way to find a well lit road with sidewalks. It would also put a burden on Josh to get things from the grocery or take me places I need to be. I need to do some thinking on a meaningful way to give up driving.
- Swearing - I'm not a sailor, but I have my moments.
- Complaining - Sometimes I mask it as venting, but its really complaining. If I could give up complaining I'm sure it would help me be a more positive person overall. Right?
- Surfing the web - I have a few blogs that I love to read, but what about all the random surfing? I wonder how much time I'd have if I didn't check out all the links I would normally click on?
- Coffee - searching for ideas about what to give up, this one comes up a lot. Like sweets though, I'm not convinced I would learn anything from not having it for a month. I have my cup every day, but sometimes I forget it at home and I usually don't even notice until I get home. And, when Josh is out of town I don't think I've ever made a pot of coffee, although I do buy an Americano...maybe there is some merit to this one.
- A thing - get rid of one thing every day for the entire month. I have stuff that I keep around the house but I don't really need, why not get rid of it? Clothes, that random trinket on the shelf, my extra hair dryer, lots of options here.
- White lies - I don't think I tell a lot of them, but maybe I tell more than I realize. Giving them up would make sure I found out how often I really do it.
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